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Understand Asian Flush & Empower Yourself in Your Relationship to Alcohol

Whether you’re looking to attract a new partner, navigating an existing relationship, or contemplating the end of one, Romance Recovery is designed to help you find clarity, confidence, and empowerment in love, all while staying true to your sobriety.

Can you answer “yes” to one or more of these questions?

If so, this program is for you. In recovery, the work often touches the surface of relationships, but there's much more to learn to truly transform your love life, no matter where you are on your romantic journey.

The Challenge of Relationships in Sobriety

Relationships can be challenging, especially in sobriety, where there are additional factors to consider. You may experience feelings of anxiety, uncertainty, or a sense of being stuck, and you might question whether your decisions stem from clarity or old patterns. This program is designed to help you reduce that anxiety, build confidence, and present your best self—whether you're looking to attract a partner, nurture your current relationship, or move on from one.

Hi, I’m Pam.

I once said 'yes' to all of these questions.

After a 12-year marriage ended during my first year of sobriety, navigating love felt overwhelming. Despite being sober, I realized I was still carrying emotional baggage from my drinking days:

  • Settling for partners who showed interest, regardless of compatibility

  • Suppressing my desires to avoid conflict

  • Adapting my relationship goals to fit the circumstances

  • Staying in relationships out of fear of being alone

I needed to reassess my approach and take a deep look within.

I examined my beliefs about love, uncovered unhealthy patterns, and redefined my desires based on my authentic self, not societal expectations.

Today, I’m in a relationship that surpasses my expectations, where my partner complements my life rather than completes it.

Whether you’re ready to call in a new partner, redefine your current relationship, or gracefully move on from one that no longer serves you, it’s possible to experience fulfilling, healthy love—and I’m here to help you make it happen!

The Program

A 7 week program to transform your love life.

Say goodbye to the frustration of attracting the wrong partners, the challenges of dating while sober, or feeling stuck in an unfulfilling relationship. Romance Recovery will help you gain confidence, clarity, and emotional freedom, empowering you to break old patterns and create the supportive, fulfilling relationship you deserve—whether you're single, in a relationship, or navigating a breakup.

Don’t let fear, self-doubt, or uncertainty hold you back any longer—step into a new chapter of love, self-worth, and emotional empowerment.

What we will do in the program:

  • Heal the Past

    Week 1-3

    Identifying Patterns

    We’ll dive into your past relationships to identify recurring patterns that have impacted your love life.

    Uncovering Beliefs

    Explore the beliefs you've formed about love and relationships, often rooted in your past or societal expectations.

    Emotional Baggage

    We’ll address any emotional baggage you're carrying from your drinking days, helping you release what no longer serves you.

  • Redefine the Present

    Week 4-5

    Current Needs

    Clarify what you need from a partner or relationship now, focusing on your desires and requirements in sobriety.

    Healthy Boundaries

    Establish healthy boundaries to ensure your relationship is supportive and nurturing.

    Self-Discovery

    Through guided exercises, you'll discover your true self and what you genuinely want from a romantic relationship, whether you’re staying or moving on.

  • Manifest the Future

    Week 6-7

    Empowerment

    Learn to recognize and own your worth, fostering confidence whether you're dating, in a relationship, or redefining your love life.

    Creating Space

    Prepare yourself to welcome a healthy and aligned relationship—or the clarity to leave the wrong one—by making emotional space for new possibilities.

    Guidelines for Attraction or Reconnection

    Develop clear guidelines to help you attract or reconnect with a partner who aligns with your values and goals.

How we’ll do it

Intimate Group Workshop

Over the course of seven transformative weeks, we'll meet online for 90-minute group sessions. You'll receive personalized coaching and engage in tailored exercises designed to deepen your understanding and strengthen your progress. Together, we'll share experiences, support each other's journeys, and learn from one another, all working together to help you manifest your goals.

One-on-One Coaching & Community Chat

Between group sessions, you'll have access to our private community chat and can book 1:1 coaching sessions with me if additional support is needed. You'll also have continuous access to encouragement, guidance, and shared experiences from your peers.

Program Tool Kit

To enhance your journey, you will receive a thoughtfully curated spiritual toolkit, including crystals, candles, and more. Each item is designed to deepen your experience throughout the program, helping you achieve meaningful growth and progress.

What you will gain from the program:

Freedom

 Break free from old relationship narratives and feel emotionally open to new possibilities.

Emotional Resilience

Gain tools to manage emotional ups and downs, rejection, or relationship transitions without compromising your sobriety

Clarity

Clearly understand and communicate what you need in a relationship, whether you're attracting someone new or working on an existing relationship.

Healthy Boundaries

 Learn to set and maintain boundaries that protect your sobriety and well-being, fostering healthier, more supportive relationships.

Confidence

Build self-esteem and approach dating, relationships, or breakups with confidence, knowing you deserve the best.

Authentic Connection

Attract or reconnect with partners who align with your true self and values.

Why work with me?

When I first entered the world of recovery, I quickly realized that sobriety was about more than just giving up alcohol; it was about reclaiming every aspect of my life. As a registered Alcohol and Drug Counselor with over six years of sobriety, I've guided countless individuals through the intricate maze of recovery, helping them not only to stay sober but to thrive in every area of their lives.

But my journey didn't stop there. Co-founding Hallowed Ground, a meditation studio in Los Angeles, allowed me to merge practical steps with emotional and spiritual practices. This holistic approach became the cornerstone of my method, enabling me to support clients in a comprehensive way. Integrating tools like mindfulness, meditation, and breathwork, I help individuals achieve a deeper level of healing and self-awareness.

With over 15 years in the health and wellness industry, including a degree from USC and extensive experience in brand innovation, I've built a strong foundation for transformative work. This unique blend of professional expertise and personal experience equips me to help you navigate the complexities of sober dating and beyond.

Participation Investment

$555*

Program Beginning January 2024

Don't let another season pass by without making the changes you deserve. Space is limited. Secure your spot in the Romance Recovery Program today and start your journey towards a fulfilling, sober love life

Fill out the form below to schedule your complimentary discover call.

*Payment plans are available.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • Of course, but the real question is—will you? Doing the work consistently and with accountability is key to true transformation. This program provides structure, support, and a dedicated community to keep you on track and ensure you make meaningful progress.

  • The group will be intentionally small, with no more than 8 women, creating an intimate space where you can connect deeply, share experiences, and learn from one another.

  • You’ll have access to our private community chat group for ongoing support, plus the option to schedule 1:1 sessions with me at any time. If deeper issues like trauma arise, I can also refer you to trusted resources for specialized support.

  • If you’re reading this and something resonates with you, it's likely this program could be just what you need.

    Let's chat! Schedule a free call, and together we’ll explore whether this program aligns with your goals before you commit.

Questions before getting started?

Schedule a free consultation and let’s talk about how I can help you elevate your relationships in sobriety.