Romance

Recovery

A Program to Redefine Dating in Sobriety & Attract the One

Can you answer “yes” to one or more of these questions?

  • The work that's done in recovery, only touches the surface on romance but there is more you can learn.

  • Although you are clear minded it, you might be carrying old ideas about love and relationships.

  • I believe I have the steps to give you a firm foundation to not be afraid of dating in recovery.

If so, this program is for you. In recovery, the work done often touches the surface of romance, but there is more you can learn to truly transform your love life.

The Challenge of Sober Dating

Dating while sober can be incredibly challenging. You might feel anxious, unsure, and out of place in social settings that revolve around drinking. The fear of rejection, combined with a lack of confidence in your sober self, can make dating feel overwhelming. This program is designed to help you ease that anxiety, feel confident, and show up as your best sober self.

Hi, I’m Pam.

And I once said 'yes' to all of these questions.

But thanks to the inner work I'd like to take you through, they no longer apply.

Freshly divorced from a 12-year relationship in my first year of sobriety, dating felt daunting. And despite being sober and clear-minded, I still carried the same emotional baggage from my drinking days:

  • Settling for partners who showed interest, regardless of compatibility

  • Suppressing my desires to avoid conflict

  • Adapting my relationship goals to fit the circumstances

  • Staying in relationships out of fear of being alone and believing it's the best I can do

I realized I needed to reassess my approach and take a good, albeit nervous, look within.

I examined my beliefs about love, uncovered relationship patterns, and consciously reframed my desires to align with my authentic self in recovery, not societal expectations.

Today, I am delighted to say I’ve manifested a partner who surpasses my expectations and complements my life, rather than completes it.

Join me in a nurturing environment of self-discovery, reflection, and growth as you grow into attracting the partner you truly deserve.

It’s time to manifest your dream partner!

The Program

A 7 week program to transform the way you look at relationships so that you call in the one.

Say goodbye to the frustration of attracting the wrong partners and the anxiety of dating while sober. Romance Recovery will help you gain confidence, clarity, and emotional freedom, empowering you to break old patterns and finally experience the fulfilling, supportive relationship you've always desired. 

Don’t let fear and self-doubt hold you back any longer—step into a new chapter of love and self-worth.

What we will do in the program:

  • Heal the Past

    Identifying Patterns

    We will dive deep into your past relationships to identify recurring patterns and behaviors that have influenced your love life.

    Uncovering Beliefs

    We'll explore the beliefs you've formed about love and relationships, often rooted in past experiences and societal expectations.

    Emotional Baggage

    We'll address the emotional baggage you might be carrying from your drinking days, helping you release what no longer serves you.

  • Redefine the Present

    Current Needs

    We will clarify what you need from a partner now, focusing on your desires and requirements in sobriety.

    Healthy Boundaries

    We'll establish healthy boundaries to ensure your relationships are supportive and nurturing.

    Self-Discovery

    Through guided exercises and reflections, you'll discover your true self and what you genuinely want from a romantic relationship.

  • Manifest the Future

    Empowerment

    We will empower you to recognize and own your worth, fostering a strong sense of self-esteem and confidence.

    Creating Space

    You'll learn how to make emotional and physical space in your life for a new partner, preparing yourself to welcome love.

    Guidelines for Attraction

    We'll develop clear guidelines to help you attract the right partner who aligns with your values and goals in sobriety.

How we’ll do it

Intimate Group Workshop

Over the course of seven transformative weeks, we'll meet online for 90-minute group sessions. You'll receive personalized coaching and engage in tailored exercises designed to deepen your understanding and strengthen your progress. Together, we'll share experiences, support each other's journeys, and learn from one another, all working together to help you manifest your goals.

One-on-One Coaching & Community Chat

The work we do together is enlightening, and sharing your experiences makes it even more impactful. Stay connected between sessions with access to our private group chat. Whether you need guidance, encouragement, or just a listening ear, you'll have continuous support from me and your peers whenever you need it most

Program Tool Kit

To enhance your journey, you will receive a thoughtfully curated spiritual toolkit, including crystals, candles, and more. Each item is designed to deepen your experience throughout the program, helping you achieve meaningful growth and progress.

What you will gain from the program:

Freedom

You will be free of the old narratives around relationships and be emotionally open to something new.

  • Experience liberation from past patterns and beliefs that have held you back.

  • Embrace a newfound sense of independence and autonomy in your love life.

Emotional Resilience

  • Gain tools and strategies to manage the emotional ups and downs of dating.

  • Develop resilience to handle rejection and setbacks without compromising your sobriety.

  • Strengthen your emotional well-being to maintain a positive outlook on your romantic journey.

Clarity

You will clearly understand and communicate what you are looking for in a partner and how you want them to be a part of your life.

  • Develop a crystal-clear vision of your ideal relationship and partner.

  • Learn to articulate your needs and desires confidently and effectively.

Healthy Boundaries

  • Learn to set and maintain healthy boundaries in your relationships.

  • Protect your sobriety and well-being by establishing clear limits.

  • Foster relationships that are respectful, supportive, and nurturing.

Self Confidence

  • You will make a deeper connection with yourself to fully understand and own your worth to face dating without fear.

  • Build unwavering self-esteem and self-worth.

  • Approach dating with a sense of confidence and assurance, knowing you deserve the best.

Authentic Connection

  • Attract partners who align with your true self and values.

  • Build deep, meaningful connections based on authenticity and mutual respect.

  • Experience fulfilling relationships that enhance your life and sobriety.

Why work with me?

When I first entered the world of recovery, I quickly realized that sobriety was about more than just giving up alcohol; it was about reclaiming every aspect of my life. As a registered Alcohol and Drug Counselor with over six years of sobriety, I've guided countless individuals through the intricate maze of recovery, helping them not only to stay sober but to thrive in every area of their lives.

But my journey didn't stop there. Co-founding Hallowed Ground, a meditation studio in Los Angeles, allowed me to merge practical steps with emotional and spiritual practices. This holistic approach became the cornerstone of my method, enabling me to support clients in a comprehensive way. Integrating tools like mindfulness, meditation, and breathwork, I help individuals achieve a deeper level of healing and self-awareness.

With over 15 years in the health and wellness industry, including a degree from USC and extensive experience in brand innovation, I've built a strong foundation for transformative work. This unique blend of professional expertise and personal experience equips me to help you navigate the complexities of sober dating and beyond.

Participation Investment

$500*

Programs Beginning Fall 2024

Don't let another season pass by without making the changes you deserve. Secure your spot in the Romance Recovery Program today and start your journey towards a fulfilling, sober love life

Fill out the form below and schedule your free consultation. Spaces are limited, so act now to ensure your place in this transformative program!

*Payment plans are available.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • You can but will you actually do it? Also there's power in doing the work consistently in a timely manner. Can you hold yourself accountable to that?

  • There will be no more than 8 women in the group, allowing for intimacy and the opportunity to hear a variety of different experiences to learn from.

  • You'll have access to our private community chat group and can schedule a 1:1 session with me anytime. If sensitive issues like trauma arise, I can also connect you with trusted outside resources for additional support.

  • If you've made it to this question, there is probably something that resonates.

    Let's schedule a free call to discuss where you are and how this might be helpful before you signup.

Questions before getting started?

Schedule a free consultation and let’s talk about how I can help you elevate your life in sobriety.